Energy flows to where attention goes. The dynamics of relationship status and energy. By Gina Meyers

 

Energy flows to where attention goes.

The dynamics of relationship  status and energy.

By Gina Meyers

It doesn’t matter if you are in a relationship at the present moment, friends, not in a relationship at the present moment, but were in the past–you will be in the “relationship” regardless of the current status due to the energy that you have given the relationship and the energy you currently give the relationship.

So let that sink in for a moment.

Regardless of present relationship status, (ie, you guys are on a break, you are together, etc.) there is relationship energy.

Relationship energy ebbs and flows depending upon mood and emotional energy as well. But that’s a different energy that I am talking about.

So, if you want to continue to build upon your relationship, or you want to leave it behind, you have to do the same thing, focus on the things you like about the relationship and the way it makes you feel.

By focusing on the positives regardless of the relationship “status quo” you will be able to have a renewed relationship with yourself, the other person, a new person in the future. 

By elevating your emotions you’ll spend less time focusing on how to fix it and more energy on what already works. 

When there is a lot of energy surrounding a relationship, relationship status doesn’t matter. Your brain is already wired to respond a certain way to that person. 

Giving all memories and emotional energy happy and positive will lead your life and your energy is a state of peace.

By being faithful to your positive emotions and focusing on only positive energy you will not only have a renewed relationship with others but you will have a faithfully forgiving and loving relationship with yourself.